My mother had this typed account from one of our ancestors. The typewriter was rather worn so I tried to make it as legible as possible. My maternal grandfather, William T. Llewellyn's mother, Abigail, was a Stratton. Her grandfather was Daniel Stratton, her father was Benjamin D. Stratton and her mother in the photo, Ellen Stanley Stratton. What an interesting piece of history this gives us of the old Society of Friends in the early days. Here is a link to a website for Stratton House Inn in Flushing, Ohio that was started by Charles, a brother of Abigail Stratton Llewellyn, my great grandmother. Spelling of "Abigail" is peculiar but I left it alone, along with a few others.
A short Autobiography of Daniel Stratton
1797 -- 1872
The elderly woman seated in center is Ellen Stanley Stratton, granddaughter of Daniel Stratton, on her 90th birthday. Her sister, Abigail, married Elisha Llewellyn. Ellen wore the Quaker plain dress in all the photos I have.
It has at times presented itself to my mind as a duty to my children as well as myself, to leave for their perusal some account of my life, and of their dear mother, the places of our births, etc. I was born the 8th of 12th month, 1797, on big Timber Creek, Gloucester County, New Jersey. My parents were Michael and Rhoda Stratton, then neither of them being members of the religious Society of Friends. They shortly after made application to Haddonfield Monthly Meeting, Gloucester County, New Jersey, and themselves and family were all admitted as members thereof, myself being then the youngest of the family.
I well remember hearing my dear parents speak of the difficulties they endured at those times in regularly attending meetings, they having between 7 and 8 miles to go. They seldom missed attending except through the indisposition of themselves or their family. Their example in thus regularly endeavoring to attend our meetings for worship and discipline has often been presented to my mind as a duty of every rightly concerned Friend.
In the spring of 1802 my parents removed their family from Timber Creek to what was known as the Jennings farm near Haddonfield, on the road to Clomons Bridge over Big Timber Creek, the farm was now in the possession of the Willots family-where some of the younger branches of their family were born. We continued on the Jennings farm until the Spring of 1810, when with the approbation of our friends we removed to the State of Ohio. The family then consisted of our Grandparents, Joshua and Elizaboth Stratton, our parents, eleven children and Elizabeth Pino (since Field), with four horses and two wagons. After the tedious journey of eighteen days we arrived at Salem, Columbiana County, Ohio, about the first of 6th month, having lost one horse on the road on the last day of our journey.
We went to uncle Aaron Stratton's at his mills in Goshen Township three miles northwest of Salem, where we remained a short time and then moved to a farm of Joseph Hillard's two miles southwest of Salem on the New Lisbon road. Our Grandfather died in the twelfth month following at Uncle Thomas Johnson's near Uncle Aaron’s. In the Spring of 1811 we moved to Abraham Warrington's farm on the Ellsworth road north of Salem, having previously purchased of an Aaron Street the north east quarter of Section No. 25 T 17 of Handle 4th, Goshen Township, lately having been organized into a township.
Our Grandmother, Elizabeth Stratton, died in the 6th Month, 1811 at Uncle Thomas Johnson's; she and her husband were buried in the old graveyard first opened in Salem. In the fall of 1811 we moved on our own farm, having previously built a large cabin thereon I continued with the family experiencing many hardships incident on making a new settlement in the woods, getting but little opportunity of school learning, but endeavoring to make the best use of the opportunity I had.
In the Fall of 1818 I commenced teaching a small school near Now Albany on Elisha Teeter’s farm, taught six months that Fall and Winter.
In the Spring of 1819 I worked on the farm and some at the carpenter trade with my brothers. In the Fall again took the same school for six months. In the Fall of 1820 commenced school in Salem, taught six months In the Summer of 1821 to school at Middleton to Samuel Hollingsworth In the spring of 1822 assisted father's in building their now home on the farm, In the Fall of 1822, desiring to have some more opportunity for an education, I decided on going east on a visit to some relatives and friends; sot out about the 1st of 9th month by private conveyance to Philadelphia and Now Jersey. After visiting some time, commenced going to school to a most esteemed friend, Job Lippincott, in Modford, Burlington County, New Jersey, at Upper Evosham Meeting House.
During my continuance at school, I became acquainted with Abigal Borton, she being associated with Mary S. Lippincott, wife of Job, in the bonnet making business, boarding at the same house After being at school for about three months and teaching a school for about three months near the Green Tree Tavern in Burlington County, Now Jersey, and after many opportunities with my dear friend Abigal Borton we concluded it might be right for us to form a matrimonial alliance with each other; she being the daughter of John and Hannah Borton of Lower Evesham, Burlington County, New Jersey. Her mother’s name was Hannah Hainos of Modford, and her father a son of Obidiah Borton a ministering friend of Lower Evosham Monthly Meeting.
Abigal was born on the farm now in possession of Pemberton Borton, youngest son of her brother, John Borton. She was born the 10th of 9th month, 1789.
After the death of her father she went to live with her sister, Mary Dudley, near Moorestown. After Mary deceased, they, her mother and sister Elizabeth, moved around considerably, finally settling down with Benjamin Davis near Modford, Upper Evosham, whore Abigale had charge of the household department for several years previous to Benjamin Davis' marriage in the Spring of 1822, when she moved to Modford, built a small shop and became partner with Mary Lippincott in the bonnet making.
We were married in the 6th month, 1823, with the general approbation of our relatives and friends, in a very large meeting at Benjamin Davis very kindly and plenteously provided our marriage entertainment, shortly after which we visited the seashore at Tuckorton in company with brother John Borton and wife. We then began to prepare to move to Salem, Ohio. We started about the 1st of 8th month, brother John and Jomima accompanying us, taking us free of change in his big covered wagon. Met a very fine reception by parents and their friends, as well as their families generally. Commenced housekeeping in father's parlor about the 1st of 9th month, 1823.
I again opened school for the term of five months near Elisha Tootors. Spent the winter agreeably, brother Joshus and Rachel removing to father's shop for the winter. Joshua's Rachel is a very fine agreeable woman.
After my school was out in the Spring of 1824 we moved into the shop and Joshuas on the farm belonging to the heirs of Joel Sharp. There our son Michael was born in the 3rd month. We commenced preparation for building a house on the northwest corner of Father's land, got it ready to move into about the 1st of 12th month, 1824, and I opened a school in a little old log cabin, known as Stafford School, where I taught at intervals until 1841.
We experienced many privations in making new improvements in the woods, with our young and increasing family, and had it not been that I had one of the best of helpmates, I could hardly have gotten along. But by teaching in the winter, surveying, writing some, working farming, we were enabled to get along pretty comfortably. In the fall of 1826 we experienced a great loss in the removal by death of our dear brother Joshua and wife, he in the 9th month, she in the 12th month following, soon after the birth of their youngest son, Joshua. Brother Joshua had assisted in building the new Stafford Schoolhouse. Their family was broken up and their four children taken to father's for the remaining part of the winter; in the Spring of 1827 Sina to Aunt Lydia Bailey's. In the spring of 1828, my dear Abigal made preparation for a trip to Now Jersey to see her aged mother and brother's and sister Elizabeth Buckman, who lately married and lived near Nowtown, Bucks County Pennsylvania, in company with Ellen Butler, in a private conveyance, about the middle of the 5th month. Sore about five or six weeks, they having to return by public conveyance, crossing tho mountain in the stage. Her mother deceased shortly after. Elizabeth Shrovo (since Giskill) assisted Lydia Bdonburgh, our girl in providing for the family, our son John being about seventeen months old.
In the fall of 1828 Abigal attended, by appointment, the Yearly Meeting at the time of the Hicksite separation, which sho said was. a very trying time and made a deep impression on her mind. Most of hor dear relatives and many who had boon very kind friends ( became Hicksites), but we neither of us could feel satisfied to go with the Hicksite separation. Our dear old friend Thomas Shilatee attended Yearly Meeting that year.
In 1829 we had a visit from a much esteemed friend, Esther Jones of Philadelphia, who attended Yearly Meeting that year; also myself, also Elizabeth Mickle of Woodbury, N. J.
In 1830 brother John Borton and Hannah visited us after harvest John to Hicksite Yearly Meeting and they went on to Waynesville, Ohio to visit brother Edward Borton in that neighborhood. Some of the family aro still about there by the name of Mullon. In the 11th month, 1832, my dear Abigal and several other friends were appointed by Salem Monthly Meeting to visit, as way might open, the families and individual members of that meeting. Accordingly, in company with Johnathan Hood and his wife Clarissa, and John Fawcett, in the Winter of 1832 and 1833 they proferrod the above named visits, on such to the satisfaction of their minds.
In the 5th month, 1833, our daughter Esther was born, a poor little weakly babe. Our cousin Hannah Stratton, of Uncle Stacy Stratton's, had charge of the nursing department, a fine young girl who died in 1834. Lydia Brandenburgh left us about this time after residing with us for several years. Shortly afterwards Mary Ann Carrol, daughter of Edward of Now Lisbon, came and continued with us until some timo in 1839.
In 1840 our son Michael entered Daniel Williams drug store and commenced reading medical books. In the 9th month, 1840, our dear cousin Evi Stratton, son of Aaron and Jerusha, departed this life at father's; was interred at Salem.
In the first month of 1842 our dear aged mother departed this life in groat quietness. In the 6th month of 1842 we experienced a great trial in the decease of our third son, John Stratton, he having drowned in Ryncar H. Swom's mill pond in Goshen Township, with two of his cousins, Francis and Joshua Stratton, children of Joshua and Rachel, both deceased, Francis being in the 18th year of his age and John and Joshua in their 16th year. They were taken from father's and all interred in one grave in the burial ground at Salem attended by a great concourse of friends and others. From the united testimonies borne at the timo, as well as some feeling sense thereof they are gone from this vain and fleeting world to their everlasting resting places in Heaven. The loss of them a great trial to us, the survivors.
About the time of 1st month, 1842, our dear brother Michael Stratton was taken with something like apploxoy, very ill for some days, mending some at times, then thrown back again, continued until the 6th of 2nd month, 1843, when he quietly departed this life in the 34th year of his age. A great trial to all the family, especially our dear father. Also our dear brother Joseph Stratton departed this life the 5th of 2nd month, 1843, in the 48th year of his age. He was interred at Now Garden. A great loss to his helpless family and to society generally. In the Spring of 1843 we built our barn and made some other improvements.
In the 9th month, 1844, my dear Abigal and myself attended Ohio Yearly meeting. Made our home at Henry Lupton's and Achash's, a pleasant homo and very kind friends. In the early part of 1845, in company with my dear wife, prepared to attend Philadelphia Yearly Meeting, went by way of Wellsville and Pittsburg, crossing the mountains by railroad, incline plane and canal. Attended a very quiet Yearly Meeting, although there was stir about Gurneyism, as there was about Hicksiteism in the Yearly Meeting of 1843, which we both attended just previous to our marriage. After Yearly Meeting we visited our connections and friends in Jersey and sister Elizabeth Buckman in Bucks County, Pennsylvania. After an absence of about six weeks we returned to our family and friends. Found all well and felt a thankfulness for the favors bestowed. Whilst on this little journey cousin Abi Stratton was with Barclay and Esther very agreeably while we were from homo.
In the 7th month, 1845, sister Abigal was married to Jonathan Hood and moved to Agusta, becoming a member of Sandy Spring Monthly Meeting. Cousin Sina taking charge for her Grandfather in the house keeping department until the 1st of 4th month, 1846, when we left our little farm and moved to father's farm and took charge of him.
Our son Michael (Jr.) having after reading medical books for some time with Daniel Williams and Dr. Coffee, entered perhaps in 1844 reading with Dr. Carey, and in the 2nd month, 1846, located himself in Bento Mahoning County, Ohio, where he worked into a very good practice. In the Fall of 1846 wo again attended Ohio Yearly Meeting in company -with sister Mary S. Barber. Our son Michael, on the 25th of 12th month, 1846, was married to Martha Williams, daughter of Joseph and Mary Williams, the latter deceased of Flushing Ohio. He some time previously been taken with a hemorrhage of the lungs, was very poorly with a bad cough when they were married, returned home, visited their intended. homo at Bonton a short time, but had to return to our house, was very soon confined to his room and left it but little during the Winter of 1846-47, when feeling himself declining pretty fast had Dr. Carey sent for. When he came he requested Dr. Carey to come up to his room and sit by him, when he very quietly departed this life, leaving his dear Martha and other relatives feeling that his end was peace. Ho was interred in Salem, I believe the 12th of 5th month.
I insert here, for the perusal of his relatives and others, a part of a letter to Charles Williams, a cousin of Martha’s, at some timeo-during his sickness and confinement to his room, as showing the state of his mind at that timo, as he said little to us during his sickness except at one time he expressed that he felt resigned to his situation and was willing to go. Follows the letter in part;
"Not having hoard from thee since thou wert here, we are at some loss as to whereabouts, doings, health, etc. So that, notwithstand- ing my weak condition, I feel a willingness to commence thee a letter after having waited a long time to hear from thee in vain; thinking thee would write us frequently without expecting answers while I am sick. I have not left my room but once since thou wert here when I merely stepped to an adjoining apartment to view some object of curiosity. Notwithstanding our trying situation, the very precarious condition of my health, etc, we think we have to some extent been strengthened with all might, according to His glorious power unto all patience and long suffering with joyfulness. Yes, we have experienced many moments of solemn thought and raised many humble petitions that the Everlasting Shophord of Israel's Fold may see meet to strengthen and support us; enabling us to sow unto ourselves in righteousness, reap in mercy, break up the fallow ground; for it is time to seek the Lord, until ho come rain righteousness upon us.
"Yes, my dear friend, I am fully convinced that it is for us to say or make our choice, whether we are to spend Eternity in torment or in the New Jerusalem, where golden paved streets reflect the image of the Prince of Peace, the God of all our sure mercies. He, who before the world was laid the foundations of the earth, formed the water and the dry land; who said let there be light; who made Acturas, Orion and the Pleiades and the Chambers of the South; who made the clouds His chariot; who walketh on the wings of the wind. After attentively reading the Holy Scriptures, and beholding the glory, honor and majesty of God so wonderfully described in the accurate foretelling of the coming of the Messiah by the Holy Prophets of old, how can we refrain from repeating the language of tho Psalmist, "The Lord reigneth, He is clothed in majesty. clothed with strength wherewith He girdeth Himself. The world also is established, that it cannot be removed.” Who could refrain from speaking of the majesty of His ways or His glorious works. Yes, we would proclaim them as from the housetop. But alas, there is a power going to and fro in the earth and up and down in it, that depriveth many, yea very many, from the enjoyment of the many blessings of the Kingdom of Christ Jesus the son of God, and God Himself over all. Yos, my dear friend, Satan is ever busy soliciting us to the top mountain, where he shows us the kingdom of this world and offereth them all to us if we will but fall down and worship him. Here I spread before us a powerful inducement to sin by accepting the offer and, instead of the Prince of Peace, fall down and worship the Prince in Darkness. But still the Spirit of God which weighs the strength of the hearts of many, (and might in all if there were but an humbling to its level) enable them to adopt the language of the Savior, ‘Get thee behind me, Satan'.
"The straight and narrow way which leadeth to the mansions of rest and peace is not decorated with any alluring baits and artificial flowers to tempt the traveler to walk therein. Nothing but naked truth appears, and the natural mind is by no means enticing. The Savior of the world has given us a portion of his spirit to direct us, and as we humble ourselves and listen to it's dictates, we will find no difficulties, but rather peace in the voyage of life. Experiencing the truth of the language "Come unto me all ye that labour and I will give you rest.”
“Well thou may begin to think it is time to get off this strain of thought and give a history of our doings. I am able to sit up some more than half a day, which time is mostly spent in reading. We are by no means at a loss for reading matter; we have the works of Cowper, Kirk White, Roger Harvey, Daniel Wheeler's Journal, with some other good books, and among the rest, the Best of Books, which last mentioned constitutes the principal part of my reading. A few weeks back I spent considerable time reading Baxter's Saint's Rest, and though the words were sweet to hear, they did not afford that sweet and lasting impression to be derived from the Holy Book. When I lie down to rest in the day time, my dear Martha reads to me the Journal of Daniel Wheeler, the history of whose life in Russia is no less sublime and miraculous than his happy deliverance from the jaws of a roaring lion. It truly was his lot to see peril by sea and land not only whilst walking in destruction's mazy path, but after his mind became enlightened with the light of truth and holiness. letters to his friends in England are sublimely Christianlike, ever breathing forth the words of true wisdom which is alone with God. I wish they were published by themselves and circulated the world over. "As to a certainty of a change in my health for the better, I have not much confidence, although I have been gaining strength these ten days. My affectionate Martha does very faithfully her part for my comfort. Several times already my ear has been delighted with the song of spring birds delightfully perched on a limb near my window.
"Dear friend, I send this as it is coming from a poor worm of the dust, and hope thou will accept it as a tribute of love that bindeth heart to heart in Christian fellowship."
After Michael's decease, Martha continued a short time, when my dear Abigal took her to her brother's at Flushing, and went to Still- water Quarterly Meeting which was very large.
Early in the Spring of 1848 Mary H. Cooper of Woodbury, Now Jersey came on a visit; continued until Fall, attending the wedding of Benjamin D. Stratton and Ellen Stanley, thon with us and Load Stratton to Yearly Meeting which continued until 3rd day morning. I had attended Yearly Meeting in 1847. In the 11th month of 1849 our Martha came, with George Cattell and wife on a visit. From time to time---Martha was taken with a hemorrhage of the lungs, just in the same way dear Michael was taken, took the same room where she con- tinued all winter, better and worse, until about the 1st of 4th month 1850, it was concluded best to move her to her uncle, Daniel Williams where she continued, evidently declining, until about the middle of 9th month, 1850 when sho departed this life and was interred in father's row near her deceased husband. Cousin Mary H. Cooper and cousin Sina had charge of her whilst at our home. Mary H. Cooper returned to Jersey in the 4th month of that year.
In the 4th or 5th month, 1851, our sister Elizabeth Buckmen and cousin Hannah Borton came on a visit. Elizabeth continued about two or three weeks and returned. Hannah staid a considerable time - a pleasant visit.
My dear Abigal, in company with J. & H. Bonsall, attended Ohio Yearly meeting, an unpleasant time.
In the Fall of 1851 Hannah Hobson came to teach school in the Grove House on the Ellsworth road two and one half milos north of Salem, the house having been built in 1844. In the 4th month Barclay attended Philadelphia Yearly Meeting in company with cousin Sina. Mary H. Cooper having returned located herself in Salem. In 1851 Hannah taught one term. In 1852 Barclay and Mary Cooper paid a visit to Flushing and Stillwator, attended Yearly Meeting at Mount Pleasant.
Brother Charles, after such suffering, departed this life very quietly about the middle of the 11th month; 1852.
In 1855 Benjamin D. Stratton engaged in store keeping in Salem with Thomas Tomlinson. In the Spring of 1854 moved to D. William- son's saw mill. In the 5th month, 1853, Barclay was married at Flushing to Hannah Hobson. Commenced housekeeping in our home.
In the 9th month, 1854, the Gurneyite separation at Mount Pleasant, we were neither of us there. In 1855 in the Spring our sister Elizabeth Buckmon again made us a visit very agreeably. Returned with David Fawcett & company.
In the Spring of 1856 Benjamin and Ellen moved to the mill at Now Garden, where they still are and appear to be doing well. the Fall of 1857 I attended Yearly Meeting, going on the cars, and in the latter part of 10th month paid a visit with my dear Abigal to B. D. and Ellon's. She (Abigal) was then very poorly returned home, kept about and attended Preparative Meeting in the 11th month, which, I believe was the last away from home! After which she seemed very rapidly to go down. But we still entertained hope she might get better, until about the 1st of 1858, when from the nature of the disease we became convinced she could not long survive it. She continued until the 11th of the 1st month, when she very quietly departed this life in great composure, giving, as some of us thought very grateful evidence that her purified spirit had entered one of those blessed mansions prepared for the righteous of all generations There seemed to be most benignant smile settled on her countenance, the most beautiful to look upon I ever saw.
Our friends J. and Hannah Bonsall wore very acceptable with us, also cousin E. Stratton, brother Aaron and wife, (Unity) also Jehu Fawcett and Mary J. came in the evening. She was buried on the 4th in Salem by the side of brother Charles. I now here assert on account of our daughter, Esther, concerning her dear departed mother.
"An account of the last week of the sickness of my dear mother"
"The 1st day of 1st month she seemed much more poorly, pain in her back and side, which continued for some time. On 5th day she seemed no better, I observed; I do wish thee would get better, does thee think thee will?! "I don't know" she replied. I have thought I would but as yet been unable to see the result, which was the case with Ann Branson- and she got better and about again.' That night Barclay and I sat up with her, and she had a very low spell in the night; after reviving a little she said, ‘Patience and resignation is all I have to look to now.’ Continued much the same until next evening. We sent for Benny in the night, she had another very bad spell. Edward asked her if she know she had not long to live, and he hoped the work was not all to be done yet. She replied, I hope not, I had a hard struggle tonight! I don't expect I have altogether done as I ought to have done as my duty. I have not been as (stayed as I ought to have been. I have lived to see my children raised and nearly all settled, which has been a great satisfaction to me. My greatest trial is to part with my dear husband. I don't know what is to become of him. I want you to be kind to him and to one another Daniel, sit close to me, and Esther too. I hope we all feel forgive- ness as we hope to be forgiven. I said Mother it is hard to give theo up, she replied lard things will be made easy if we try to do right'. She bade father and me farewell, kissing us at the time.
On First day night she seemed very anxious to see Ellen and Hannah, wishing Benny to go for Ellen, saying she might last for a time. Hannah was sent for; on her coming into the room she said, Well Hannah thee sees I am brought on a low bed this morning'. Another timo she expressed a desire that her patience might hold out to go would be an easy release, but I must suffer on, it is no more that I deserve. I have craved an easy passage, but I must be content. On Ellen coming about noon she said, Thee sees I am very sick', and soon after exclaimed, 'I do believe He will have mercy, I do think He will have'. Her sufferings increased to almost insensibility, until 2nd day evening she became entirely quiet, crossing her hands on her lap and without sigh or struggle, she fell asleep; we humbly hope in the arms of her dear Redeemer."
Here follows the account published in "The Friend" under the date of 1st month 22nd, 1858, concerning my dear wife;
"Died on the 11th of 1st month, 1858, at her residence near Salem Columbiana County, Ohio, Abigal Stratton, wife of Daniel Stratton, in the 69th year of her age. She had been in poor health for many years and for about six weeks before her death was confined to her home. Though she said nothing in her long illness directly indicating the state of her mind, until a few days before her death, yet her diligent perusal of the Holy Scriptures and the approved writing of Friends, evinced her religious concern for herself. The day before her death, being inquired of if she knew that she had but a short time to live, she said she did. A hope was then expressed that the important work was not all left to be done now; she replied, ‘I hope not, I have had a hard struggle tonight'. In the afternoon she said ‘I do believe He will have mercy'. Being interrupted by a paroxysm of coughing, she lost control of her faculties and was not afterwards sensible except at short intervals. Though preceded by great suffering her departure was easy and quiet; her friends have the comforting assurance that that mercy which she relied on was fully extended to her. (Vol. 31, No.20 of "The Friend 1st month 3rd, 1858). At the time of the decease of my dear Abigal our aged father lay very ill, having been confined at home for more than two years. He continued very ill suffering very much, having taken a very hard cold which he bore with patience and humility, until the 29th of 1st month, 1858, when he quietly departed this life, in the 93rd year of his age. He was buried in the Salem graveyard beside my dear Abigal. Here follows the account of our dear father, as published in "The Friend", Vol.31 No.28, 3rd month, 1858; "Died at his residence near Salem, Columbiana County, Ohio, on the 29th of 1st month, Michaol Stratton, aged 93 years. This dear Friend was attached to the doctrines and testimonies of our Society, and was diligent in the attendance of meetings; but for more than two years was prevented by infirmity of body. At one time, alluding to this privation, he said, 'None know the favored seasons I have while the family are at meeting, and although almost deprived of sight and hearing, I have enough left to be thankful for. During his last illness he manifested exemplary patience and humility. In him was fulfilled the language of Job-"Thou shalt come to thy grave in full age, like a shock of corn cometh in it's season"
After the decease of my dear Abigal and her father, Michael Stratton, Esther and I continued on the place, (John E. Stratton leaving us very shortly) until about the 1st of 4th month, 1858, when Barclays moved in with us and farmed the place for that year.
At yearly Meeting time Esther and I paid a visit to Stillwater and Yearly Meeting, then home. Spent the winter very agreeably. In the fall of 1858 Barclay bought the Estelle farm at New Garden, and prepared for breaking our farming operations about the 1st of 4t month; Barclays moved to their new home, and we to prepare for a visit to our friends in Jersey, and to attend Philadelphia Yearly Meeting. Gone from home about nine weeks. Visited by dear relatives and friends; returned home about the 1st of 6th month-at the time of the big frost. When wo returned it looked very badly about our little home.
Mark Zelly visited us in the 8th month. Again attended Yearly Meeting in the Fall of 1859 and again in 1860. I should have said that David Whitehall and wife visited us in the Spring of 1859 about the middle of 5th month. In the Spring of 1861 I was taken with a hard spell of inflamatory rheumatism; nearly helpless for nearly a month, a very trying time.
In the Fall of 1861 we sold our small home to Thomas Mathers for forty five dollars per acre, and prepared to move to New Garden in the Spring of 1862, where we purchased a house and lot from J. and Anna M. Edgerton for $260.00, where we moved about the 4th month David Whitehalls again visited us in 8th month, 1862 at New Garden (later Winona).
When we moved to New Garden had seven teams, Benj. 's, Barclay's, Aaron's, Mickie's, Josiah Fawcett's, J.J. Mather's and Samuel French with five or six loads besides. In 1864 in the sixth month, were visited by Jacob Sides, wife and twin daughters. Hannah was very sick whilst here.
Barclay was drafted in to the United States Army about the 20th of 9th month, 1864. After some days detention, in which he attended Yearly Meeting, he was forwarded to Columbus Ohio-there about ten days in which time B.D. visited him. He was forwarded to New York and then by steamer to Hilton Mead, South Carolina. After a few days back to near Richmond, Va., Benj. D. Stratton and Mifflin Cadwallad met him and Mifflinis son, Isaac. After Jos. Edgerton and Asa Garrettson, on behalf of the Meeting for Sufferings, had made application to Sec. Stanton for their release, which was granted and then liberated. Barclay returned home, and after an absence of about six weeks, in which time he endured much hardship and mental suffering. How thankful we felt for his release to Him who does indeed hold the hearts of all mon in His hands, and "turneth the hearts of the children of mon as a man turneth the watercourse in his field".
David Whitehall and wife, from Woodbury, New Jersey, paid a short visit after Yearly Meeting. Sister Elizabeth Buckman here the 24th of 11th month, also Pemberton Borton. Elizabeth visited until 12th month 12th, a very agreeable visit from sister E., although she thought it might be the last time. Died at Evan Longstaff's Goshen, Ohio. Elizabeth B. Field in the 88th year of her age. She came with us from New Jersey in 1810, then Elizabeth Pine.
About the 1st of 9th month, 1865, left on a visit to my relatives and friends in Pennsylvania and New Jersey. Attended Haddonfield- Chester Monthly Meeting and Haddonfield Quarterly Meeting. Visited Jacob Sides at Glen Riddle, Chester County, Pennsylvania, and also Westchester. Gone from home nearly three weeks, In the 9th month Esther went to Yearly Meeting in company with B.D. and Ellon, and Barclay and Hannah. A very important time with dear Esther. In 1866, 2nd month 11th, hurt my nose, erysipelas set in, a very trying time, being entirely blind for nearly three weeks, my fore- head being lanced in several places. A long and tedious time, but finally favored to gain nearly my usual health.
My dear Esther was married to Joseph Masters of Morgan County, Ohio the 31st of 5th month, 1866 and the 4th of 6th month following left for their home near Pennsville, Ohio; where I visited them to good satisfaction. Attended Pennsville Quarterly Meeting in the 8th month; continued with them until Yearly Meeting, which we attended, all my children being there. A great favor indeed seeing them there. There have been so many divisions in our once highly favored Society.
At Yearly Meeting this year we met our friend Hannah Warrington and companion, from Moorestown, New Jersey, also dear friends Clarkson Shephard of Greenwich, New Jersey, and Charles Evans of Philadelphia, A very favored Yearly Meeting many thought. After Yearly Meeting I returned with B.D.'s and Joseph and Esther to their home near Pennsville. Much of a trial to part with dear Esther, she seeming more near and dear to me than ever before. Spent the winter of 1866 and 167 mostly about homo, was at Salem Quarterly Meeting in 5th month.
On the 19th I left home for Pennsville to spend some time with Joseph and Esther, continued until Yearly Meeting in 167. Joseph and myself to Yearly Meeting, Esther and little Daniel up home. A favored Yearly Meeting. Samuel Cope of Pennsylvania being there, afterwards visited most of the meetings of the Yearly Meeting. I hope to general satisfaction. Joseph and Esther returned home after spending about two weeks with us. Mary H. Whitehall came out and attended Yearly Meeting, and paid us a very agreeable visit, return- ed about the 1st of 11th month, ‘67.
Having now, in the 71st year of my ago, brought to a close on account of many of the interesting circumstances of my life, as well as those of my dear wife, the places of our births, parentage, etc. It was very early after my dear Abigail and I were married she was very weakly, but with prudent care of her she was to me a very kind helpmate in raising our family, we being favored to live together nearly thirty-five years. I, many times earnestly desired she might be spared to me until our children were raised, and that I might be favored with health to care for her in her last sickness, as well as that of my dear aged father, Michael Stratton, both of whom I saw in their last moments, my dear Abigail expressing much concern what would happen to me. They both quietly departed this life, leaving us, their survivors, the hope that they were gone to their everlast- ing resting places in Heaven. For which I then felt thankful, and also that I have been favored to see all my dear surviving children married and comfortably settled in this world, and all seem like making well concerned Friends. All being members of the same Religious Society of Friends that I first became a member of now about sixty five years since, I much desire for them as well as for myself that we may all continue to be so, amidst all the turnings of our one peaceful Society, and we may, at last, come to the same peaceful cloud(?) that I fully believe my dear departed wife, and your truly beloved mother did.
DANIEL STRATTON, your father.
After the marriage of my dear Esther, and we breaking up house- keeping preparations were made for my removal into the northwest corner room of B. D. and Ellen's house, upstairs, about the 1st of 6th month, 1866, where I still am, and I hope truly thankful to the Giver of all our sure mercies, that I am favored with so comfortable a home.
4th day, 1st of 1st month, 1868. This is the commencement of a new year. My desires on my part are that I may be favored to look more steadily to Him for help to discharge my several duties aright, that the present year may be crowned and acceptance with Him who is indeed Lord of all.
1868, 9th month 21st. I am now preparing to return to my home at New Garden, Columbiana County, after having some more than five months with my dear children, Jos. and Esther Masters, near Pennsville, Morgan County, with much satisfaction and comfort, as well as with friends generally of Pennsville Meeting. For the many favors and blessings thus conferred upon me, a poor pilgrim passing long through this vain and tribulated world, I hope I feel truly thankful to the Author of all my sure blessings. And especially to my dear children for their many kindnesses to me whilst thus sojourning with them; feeling very desirous for my dear Esther, as for myself, that we so live that we, with dear little Daniel, may gain admittance into one of those blessed mansions in the Kingdom of Heaven with our ever dear departed mother. So that in conclusion, I hope I can in truth say, "Bless the Lord, O my soul, for all His benefits.”
DANIEL STRATTON
Farewell, my dear ones, farewell one and all.
1869, 7th mouth-6th day;
Being again about to return to my house at New Garden, I hope it is with feelings of gratitude for the many favours bestowed. left home the 30th of 3rd month, visited Joseph and Esther Masters about two weeks, then on to Philadelphia Yearly Meeting by way of the Baltimore and Ohio Railroad. Attended a very large and solemn meeting, saw my dear and deeply tried friends of the Yearly Meeting with the peculiar situation. Absent from home about three weeks. Returned to Joseph and Esther's and spent the Summer pleasantly assisting my dear Esther in taking care of her two dear little pets, Daniel and Ruthanna Masters. With much love for friends, I can truly say--Farewell.
In company with Joseph and Esther, I started for my home at New Gardon, they on a visit to their relatives and friends. the (boat). We took Julia at Malta for Wellsville, arrived at New Garden 2nd day evening. They attended Salem Quarterly Meeting, and returned home about the 15th of 8th month, 1869, being absent about three weeks. I continued about home until Yearly Meeting time, which I was favoured to attend to good satisfaction. John S. Stokes, of Philadelphia, with some other dear friends, were there. Returned home on 6th day. Continued about home, enjoying pretty good health all winter and spring, until about 5th of 4th month, 1870, when I again started for my children in Morgan County, where I arrived on 8th day evening the 8th, taking the large Arlington boat at Wellsvil for Marietta. Found all pretty well. Having brought my right of membership from New Garden to Pennsville, continued about Pennsville for almost a year, assisting my dear Esther in taking charge of her dear little pets, she having been confined the 20th of 8th month, 1870, with our third child, little Mary Abbie. Spent the Winter of 1870-71 very agreeably, mostly able to attend meetings and visit among my friends, until about 1st of 4th month, 1871, in company with Aaron Desrocs, Jr., I returned to my home at Now Garden, Spent the time very agreeably with children and friends at New Garden, attending Salem Quarterly Meeting in the 5th month and Salem Monthly Meeting twice, until on the 1st day of 8th month, 1871, in company with cousin Eliza Stratton set out for Esther's in Morgan County. All night at cousin Joel Smith's at Barnesville, arrived at Joseph's 5th day evening, the 3rd. Found all well--glad to see my Pennsville friends.
Attended Pennsville Monthly Meeting on 17th of 8th month. Our Hannah H. Stratton and Barton Dean acceptably in attendance. I was taken very unwell, which continued several days, but by good nursing and prudent care was able to attend Pennsville Quarterly Meeting on the 25th, which was a large and solemn meeting. Elwood and Hannah acceptably in the ministry. They returned to D. Ball's 6th day afternoon, then Barton Dean and company on for home, arriving 2nd day afternoon. And about which time we had an agreeable visit from Joseph Fawcett and Wife and Elizabeth Fawcett from Salem.
Now in feeble health, I am preparing to leave my dear friends at Pennsville for my home in New Garden after spending about seven Weeks pleasantly with my children and their little ones. Hoping, if health permits to attend the coming Yearly Meeting, then to return pretty directly home.
On -th month (1871), Joseph and Esther started this morning in their carriage for Flushing and Mount Pleasant, with the dear little children, to attend Yearly Meeting, cousin Eliza continuing at their home to assist in charge of their concerns.
(This account finished by his daughter, Esther Masters).
Our dear father left here on 10th month 14th with -- friends for Yearly Meeting. Although in feeble health he attended all the sittings of the meeting, making his home with Wilson and Sina Hall at their boarding house in company with all his children except ---, then returned home with Benj. D. Stratton, where he spent the winter pretty comfortably until about the middle of 1st month, 1872, was taken with erysipelas in his foot. On the 26th we received a ---, saying he was fast declining. We reached there on the evening of the 28th, found him comfortable and very glad to see us, often expressed his satisfaction at having his children all with him. For a few days we entertained a hope that he might recover, but --- --- soon failed, and it was evident that ho was nearing the shores of an endless eternity. When asked if the prospect looked bright before him, he replied, "I think it does, increasingly so". On the morning of the 6th of 2nd month, he quietly passed away, we trust, to rest and peace. Funeral was attended by --- --- of relatives and friends on 2nd month 8th, 1872.
I well remember hearing my dear parents speak of the difficulties they endured at those times in regularly attending meetings, they having between 7 and 8 miles to go. They seldom missed attending except through the indisposition of themselves or their family. Their example in thus regularly endeavoring to attend our meetings for worship and discipline has often been presented to my mind as a duty of every rightly concerned Friend.
In the spring of 1802 my parents removed their family from Timber Creek to what was known as the Jennings farm near Haddonfield, on the road to Clomons Bridge over Big Timber Creek, the farm was now in the possession of the Willots family-where some of the younger branches of their family were born. We continued on the Jennings farm until the Spring of 1810, when with the approbation of our friends we removed to the State of Ohio. The family then consisted of our Grandparents, Joshua and Elizaboth Stratton, our parents, eleven children and Elizabeth Pino (since Field), with four horses and two wagons. After the tedious journey of eighteen days we arrived at Salem, Columbiana County, Ohio, about the first of 6th month, having lost one horse on the road on the last day of our journey.
We went to uncle Aaron Stratton's at his mills in Goshen Township three miles northwest of Salem, where we remained a short time and then moved to a farm of Joseph Hillard's two miles southwest of Salem on the New Lisbon road. Our Grandfather died in the twelfth month following at Uncle Thomas Johnson's near Uncle Aaron’s. In the Spring of 1811 we moved to Abraham Warrington's farm on the Ellsworth road north of Salem, having previously purchased of an Aaron Street the north east quarter of Section No. 25 T 17 of Handle 4th, Goshen Township, lately having been organized into a township.
Our Grandmother, Elizabeth Stratton, died in the 6th Month, 1811 at Uncle Thomas Johnson's; she and her husband were buried in the old graveyard first opened in Salem. In the fall of 1811 we moved on our own farm, having previously built a large cabin thereon I continued with the family experiencing many hardships incident on making a new settlement in the woods, getting but little opportunity of school learning, but endeavoring to make the best use of the opportunity I had.
In the Fall of 1818 I commenced teaching a small school near Now Albany on Elisha Teeter’s farm, taught six months that Fall and Winter.
In the Spring of 1819 I worked on the farm and some at the carpenter trade with my brothers. In the Fall again took the same school for six months. In the Fall of 1820 commenced school in Salem, taught six months In the Summer of 1821 to school at Middleton to Samuel Hollingsworth In the spring of 1822 assisted father's in building their now home on the farm, In the Fall of 1822, desiring to have some more opportunity for an education, I decided on going east on a visit to some relatives and friends; sot out about the 1st of 9th month by private conveyance to Philadelphia and Now Jersey. After visiting some time, commenced going to school to a most esteemed friend, Job Lippincott, in Modford, Burlington County, New Jersey, at Upper Evosham Meeting House.
During my continuance at school, I became acquainted with Abigal Borton, she being associated with Mary S. Lippincott, wife of Job, in the bonnet making business, boarding at the same house After being at school for about three months and teaching a school for about three months near the Green Tree Tavern in Burlington County, Now Jersey, and after many opportunities with my dear friend Abigal Borton we concluded it might be right for us to form a matrimonial alliance with each other; she being the daughter of John and Hannah Borton of Lower Evesham, Burlington County, New Jersey. Her mother’s name was Hannah Hainos of Modford, and her father a son of Obidiah Borton a ministering friend of Lower Evosham Monthly Meeting.
Abigal was born on the farm now in possession of Pemberton Borton, youngest son of her brother, John Borton. She was born the 10th of 9th month, 1789.
After the death of her father she went to live with her sister, Mary Dudley, near Moorestown. After Mary deceased, they, her mother and sister Elizabeth, moved around considerably, finally settling down with Benjamin Davis near Modford, Upper Evosham, whore Abigale had charge of the household department for several years previous to Benjamin Davis' marriage in the Spring of 1822, when she moved to Modford, built a small shop and became partner with Mary Lippincott in the bonnet making.
We were married in the 6th month, 1823, with the general approbation of our relatives and friends, in a very large meeting at Benjamin Davis very kindly and plenteously provided our marriage entertainment, shortly after which we visited the seashore at Tuckorton in company with brother John Borton and wife. We then began to prepare to move to Salem, Ohio. We started about the 1st of 8th month, brother John and Jomima accompanying us, taking us free of change in his big covered wagon. Met a very fine reception by parents and their friends, as well as their families generally. Commenced housekeeping in father's parlor about the 1st of 9th month, 1823.
I again opened school for the term of five months near Elisha Tootors. Spent the winter agreeably, brother Joshus and Rachel removing to father's shop for the winter. Joshua's Rachel is a very fine agreeable woman.
After my school was out in the Spring of 1824 we moved into the shop and Joshuas on the farm belonging to the heirs of Joel Sharp. There our son Michael was born in the 3rd month. We commenced preparation for building a house on the northwest corner of Father's land, got it ready to move into about the 1st of 12th month, 1824, and I opened a school in a little old log cabin, known as Stafford School, where I taught at intervals until 1841.
We experienced many privations in making new improvements in the woods, with our young and increasing family, and had it not been that I had one of the best of helpmates, I could hardly have gotten along. But by teaching in the winter, surveying, writing some, working farming, we were enabled to get along pretty comfortably. In the fall of 1826 we experienced a great loss in the removal by death of our dear brother Joshua and wife, he in the 9th month, she in the 12th month following, soon after the birth of their youngest son, Joshua. Brother Joshua had assisted in building the new Stafford Schoolhouse. Their family was broken up and their four children taken to father's for the remaining part of the winter; in the Spring of 1827 Sina to Aunt Lydia Bailey's. In the spring of 1828, my dear Abigal made preparation for a trip to Now Jersey to see her aged mother and brother's and sister Elizabeth Buckman, who lately married and lived near Nowtown, Bucks County Pennsylvania, in company with Ellen Butler, in a private conveyance, about the middle of the 5th month. Sore about five or six weeks, they having to return by public conveyance, crossing tho mountain in the stage. Her mother deceased shortly after. Elizabeth Shrovo (since Giskill) assisted Lydia Bdonburgh, our girl in providing for the family, our son John being about seventeen months old.
In the fall of 1828 Abigal attended, by appointment, the Yearly Meeting at the time of the Hicksite separation, which sho said was. a very trying time and made a deep impression on her mind. Most of hor dear relatives and many who had boon very kind friends ( became Hicksites), but we neither of us could feel satisfied to go with the Hicksite separation. Our dear old friend Thomas Shilatee attended Yearly Meeting that year.
In 1829 we had a visit from a much esteemed friend, Esther Jones of Philadelphia, who attended Yearly Meeting that year; also myself, also Elizabeth Mickle of Woodbury, N. J.
In 1830 brother John Borton and Hannah visited us after harvest John to Hicksite Yearly Meeting and they went on to Waynesville, Ohio to visit brother Edward Borton in that neighborhood. Some of the family aro still about there by the name of Mullon. In the 11th month, 1832, my dear Abigal and several other friends were appointed by Salem Monthly Meeting to visit, as way might open, the families and individual members of that meeting. Accordingly, in company with Johnathan Hood and his wife Clarissa, and John Fawcett, in the Winter of 1832 and 1833 they proferrod the above named visits, on such to the satisfaction of their minds.
In the 5th month, 1833, our daughter Esther was born, a poor little weakly babe. Our cousin Hannah Stratton, of Uncle Stacy Stratton's, had charge of the nursing department, a fine young girl who died in 1834. Lydia Brandenburgh left us about this time after residing with us for several years. Shortly afterwards Mary Ann Carrol, daughter of Edward of Now Lisbon, came and continued with us until some timo in 1839.
In 1840 our son Michael entered Daniel Williams drug store and commenced reading medical books. In the 9th month, 1840, our dear cousin Evi Stratton, son of Aaron and Jerusha, departed this life at father's; was interred at Salem.
In the first month of 1842 our dear aged mother departed this life in groat quietness. In the 6th month of 1842 we experienced a great trial in the decease of our third son, John Stratton, he having drowned in Ryncar H. Swom's mill pond in Goshen Township, with two of his cousins, Francis and Joshua Stratton, children of Joshua and Rachel, both deceased, Francis being in the 18th year of his age and John and Joshua in their 16th year. They were taken from father's and all interred in one grave in the burial ground at Salem attended by a great concourse of friends and others. From the united testimonies borne at the timo, as well as some feeling sense thereof they are gone from this vain and fleeting world to their everlasting resting places in Heaven. The loss of them a great trial to us, the survivors.
About the time of 1st month, 1842, our dear brother Michael Stratton was taken with something like apploxoy, very ill for some days, mending some at times, then thrown back again, continued until the 6th of 2nd month, 1843, when he quietly departed this life in the 34th year of his age. A great trial to all the family, especially our dear father. Also our dear brother Joseph Stratton departed this life the 5th of 2nd month, 1843, in the 48th year of his age. He was interred at Now Garden. A great loss to his helpless family and to society generally. In the Spring of 1843 we built our barn and made some other improvements.
In the 9th month, 1844, my dear Abigal and myself attended Ohio Yearly meeting. Made our home at Henry Lupton's and Achash's, a pleasant homo and very kind friends. In the early part of 1845, in company with my dear wife, prepared to attend Philadelphia Yearly Meeting, went by way of Wellsville and Pittsburg, crossing the mountains by railroad, incline plane and canal. Attended a very quiet Yearly Meeting, although there was stir about Gurneyism, as there was about Hicksiteism in the Yearly Meeting of 1843, which we both attended just previous to our marriage. After Yearly Meeting we visited our connections and friends in Jersey and sister Elizabeth Buckman in Bucks County, Pennsylvania. After an absence of about six weeks we returned to our family and friends. Found all well and felt a thankfulness for the favors bestowed. Whilst on this little journey cousin Abi Stratton was with Barclay and Esther very agreeably while we were from homo.
In the 7th month, 1845, sister Abigal was married to Jonathan Hood and moved to Agusta, becoming a member of Sandy Spring Monthly Meeting. Cousin Sina taking charge for her Grandfather in the house keeping department until the 1st of 4th month, 1846, when we left our little farm and moved to father's farm and took charge of him.
Our son Michael (Jr.) having after reading medical books for some time with Daniel Williams and Dr. Coffee, entered perhaps in 1844 reading with Dr. Carey, and in the 2nd month, 1846, located himself in Bento Mahoning County, Ohio, where he worked into a very good practice. In the Fall of 1846 wo again attended Ohio Yearly Meeting in company -with sister Mary S. Barber. Our son Michael, on the 25th of 12th month, 1846, was married to Martha Williams, daughter of Joseph and Mary Williams, the latter deceased of Flushing Ohio. He some time previously been taken with a hemorrhage of the lungs, was very poorly with a bad cough when they were married, returned home, visited their intended. homo at Bonton a short time, but had to return to our house, was very soon confined to his room and left it but little during the Winter of 1846-47, when feeling himself declining pretty fast had Dr. Carey sent for. When he came he requested Dr. Carey to come up to his room and sit by him, when he very quietly departed this life, leaving his dear Martha and other relatives feeling that his end was peace. Ho was interred in Salem, I believe the 12th of 5th month.
I insert here, for the perusal of his relatives and others, a part of a letter to Charles Williams, a cousin of Martha’s, at some timeo-during his sickness and confinement to his room, as showing the state of his mind at that timo, as he said little to us during his sickness except at one time he expressed that he felt resigned to his situation and was willing to go. Follows the letter in part;
"Not having hoard from thee since thou wert here, we are at some loss as to whereabouts, doings, health, etc. So that, notwithstand- ing my weak condition, I feel a willingness to commence thee a letter after having waited a long time to hear from thee in vain; thinking thee would write us frequently without expecting answers while I am sick. I have not left my room but once since thou wert here when I merely stepped to an adjoining apartment to view some object of curiosity. Notwithstanding our trying situation, the very precarious condition of my health, etc, we think we have to some extent been strengthened with all might, according to His glorious power unto all patience and long suffering with joyfulness. Yes, we have experienced many moments of solemn thought and raised many humble petitions that the Everlasting Shophord of Israel's Fold may see meet to strengthen and support us; enabling us to sow unto ourselves in righteousness, reap in mercy, break up the fallow ground; for it is time to seek the Lord, until ho come rain righteousness upon us.
"Yes, my dear friend, I am fully convinced that it is for us to say or make our choice, whether we are to spend Eternity in torment or in the New Jerusalem, where golden paved streets reflect the image of the Prince of Peace, the God of all our sure mercies. He, who before the world was laid the foundations of the earth, formed the water and the dry land; who said let there be light; who made Acturas, Orion and the Pleiades and the Chambers of the South; who made the clouds His chariot; who walketh on the wings of the wind. After attentively reading the Holy Scriptures, and beholding the glory, honor and majesty of God so wonderfully described in the accurate foretelling of the coming of the Messiah by the Holy Prophets of old, how can we refrain from repeating the language of tho Psalmist, "The Lord reigneth, He is clothed in majesty. clothed with strength wherewith He girdeth Himself. The world also is established, that it cannot be removed.” Who could refrain from speaking of the majesty of His ways or His glorious works. Yes, we would proclaim them as from the housetop. But alas, there is a power going to and fro in the earth and up and down in it, that depriveth many, yea very many, from the enjoyment of the many blessings of the Kingdom of Christ Jesus the son of God, and God Himself over all. Yos, my dear friend, Satan is ever busy soliciting us to the top mountain, where he shows us the kingdom of this world and offereth them all to us if we will but fall down and worship him. Here I spread before us a powerful inducement to sin by accepting the offer and, instead of the Prince of Peace, fall down and worship the Prince in Darkness. But still the Spirit of God which weighs the strength of the hearts of many, (and might in all if there were but an humbling to its level) enable them to adopt the language of the Savior, ‘Get thee behind me, Satan'.
"The straight and narrow way which leadeth to the mansions of rest and peace is not decorated with any alluring baits and artificial flowers to tempt the traveler to walk therein. Nothing but naked truth appears, and the natural mind is by no means enticing. The Savior of the world has given us a portion of his spirit to direct us, and as we humble ourselves and listen to it's dictates, we will find no difficulties, but rather peace in the voyage of life. Experiencing the truth of the language "Come unto me all ye that labour and I will give you rest.”
“Well thou may begin to think it is time to get off this strain of thought and give a history of our doings. I am able to sit up some more than half a day, which time is mostly spent in reading. We are by no means at a loss for reading matter; we have the works of Cowper, Kirk White, Roger Harvey, Daniel Wheeler's Journal, with some other good books, and among the rest, the Best of Books, which last mentioned constitutes the principal part of my reading. A few weeks back I spent considerable time reading Baxter's Saint's Rest, and though the words were sweet to hear, they did not afford that sweet and lasting impression to be derived from the Holy Book. When I lie down to rest in the day time, my dear Martha reads to me the Journal of Daniel Wheeler, the history of whose life in Russia is no less sublime and miraculous than his happy deliverance from the jaws of a roaring lion. It truly was his lot to see peril by sea and land not only whilst walking in destruction's mazy path, but after his mind became enlightened with the light of truth and holiness. letters to his friends in England are sublimely Christianlike, ever breathing forth the words of true wisdom which is alone with God. I wish they were published by themselves and circulated the world over. "As to a certainty of a change in my health for the better, I have not much confidence, although I have been gaining strength these ten days. My affectionate Martha does very faithfully her part for my comfort. Several times already my ear has been delighted with the song of spring birds delightfully perched on a limb near my window.
"Dear friend, I send this as it is coming from a poor worm of the dust, and hope thou will accept it as a tribute of love that bindeth heart to heart in Christian fellowship."
After Michael's decease, Martha continued a short time, when my dear Abigal took her to her brother's at Flushing, and went to Still- water Quarterly Meeting which was very large.
Early in the Spring of 1848 Mary H. Cooper of Woodbury, Now Jersey came on a visit; continued until Fall, attending the wedding of Benjamin D. Stratton and Ellen Stanley, thon with us and Load Stratton to Yearly Meeting which continued until 3rd day morning. I had attended Yearly Meeting in 1847. In the 11th month of 1849 our Martha came, with George Cattell and wife on a visit. From time to time---Martha was taken with a hemorrhage of the lungs, just in the same way dear Michael was taken, took the same room where she con- tinued all winter, better and worse, until about the 1st of 4th month 1850, it was concluded best to move her to her uncle, Daniel Williams where she continued, evidently declining, until about the middle of 9th month, 1850 when sho departed this life and was interred in father's row near her deceased husband. Cousin Mary H. Cooper and cousin Sina had charge of her whilst at our home. Mary H. Cooper returned to Jersey in the 4th month of that year.
In the 4th or 5th month, 1851, our sister Elizabeth Buckmen and cousin Hannah Borton came on a visit. Elizabeth continued about two or three weeks and returned. Hannah staid a considerable time - a pleasant visit.
My dear Abigal, in company with J. & H. Bonsall, attended Ohio Yearly meeting, an unpleasant time.
In the Fall of 1851 Hannah Hobson came to teach school in the Grove House on the Ellsworth road two and one half milos north of Salem, the house having been built in 1844. In the 4th month Barclay attended Philadelphia Yearly Meeting in company with cousin Sina. Mary H. Cooper having returned located herself in Salem. In 1851 Hannah taught one term. In 1852 Barclay and Mary Cooper paid a visit to Flushing and Stillwator, attended Yearly Meeting at Mount Pleasant.
Brother Charles, after such suffering, departed this life very quietly about the middle of the 11th month; 1852.
In 1855 Benjamin D. Stratton engaged in store keeping in Salem with Thomas Tomlinson. In the Spring of 1854 moved to D. William- son's saw mill. In the 5th month, 1853, Barclay was married at Flushing to Hannah Hobson. Commenced housekeeping in our home.
In the 9th month, 1854, the Gurneyite separation at Mount Pleasant, we were neither of us there. In 1855 in the Spring our sister Elizabeth Buckmon again made us a visit very agreeably. Returned with David Fawcett & company.
In the Spring of 1856 Benjamin and Ellen moved to the mill at Now Garden, where they still are and appear to be doing well. the Fall of 1857 I attended Yearly Meeting, going on the cars, and in the latter part of 10th month paid a visit with my dear Abigal to B. D. and Ellon's. She (Abigal) was then very poorly returned home, kept about and attended Preparative Meeting in the 11th month, which, I believe was the last away from home! After which she seemed very rapidly to go down. But we still entertained hope she might get better, until about the 1st of 1858, when from the nature of the disease we became convinced she could not long survive it. She continued until the 11th of the 1st month, when she very quietly departed this life in great composure, giving, as some of us thought very grateful evidence that her purified spirit had entered one of those blessed mansions prepared for the righteous of all generations There seemed to be most benignant smile settled on her countenance, the most beautiful to look upon I ever saw.
Our friends J. and Hannah Bonsall wore very acceptable with us, also cousin E. Stratton, brother Aaron and wife, (Unity) also Jehu Fawcett and Mary J. came in the evening. She was buried on the 4th in Salem by the side of brother Charles. I now here assert on account of our daughter, Esther, concerning her dear departed mother.
"An account of the last week of the sickness of my dear mother"
"The 1st day of 1st month she seemed much more poorly, pain in her back and side, which continued for some time. On 5th day she seemed no better, I observed; I do wish thee would get better, does thee think thee will?! "I don't know" she replied. I have thought I would but as yet been unable to see the result, which was the case with Ann Branson- and she got better and about again.' That night Barclay and I sat up with her, and she had a very low spell in the night; after reviving a little she said, ‘Patience and resignation is all I have to look to now.’ Continued much the same until next evening. We sent for Benny in the night, she had another very bad spell. Edward asked her if she know she had not long to live, and he hoped the work was not all to be done yet. She replied, I hope not, I had a hard struggle tonight! I don't expect I have altogether done as I ought to have done as my duty. I have not been as (stayed as I ought to have been. I have lived to see my children raised and nearly all settled, which has been a great satisfaction to me. My greatest trial is to part with my dear husband. I don't know what is to become of him. I want you to be kind to him and to one another Daniel, sit close to me, and Esther too. I hope we all feel forgive- ness as we hope to be forgiven. I said Mother it is hard to give theo up, she replied lard things will be made easy if we try to do right'. She bade father and me farewell, kissing us at the time.
On First day night she seemed very anxious to see Ellen and Hannah, wishing Benny to go for Ellen, saying she might last for a time. Hannah was sent for; on her coming into the room she said, Well Hannah thee sees I am brought on a low bed this morning'. Another timo she expressed a desire that her patience might hold out to go would be an easy release, but I must suffer on, it is no more that I deserve. I have craved an easy passage, but I must be content. On Ellen coming about noon she said, Thee sees I am very sick', and soon after exclaimed, 'I do believe He will have mercy, I do think He will have'. Her sufferings increased to almost insensibility, until 2nd day evening she became entirely quiet, crossing her hands on her lap and without sigh or struggle, she fell asleep; we humbly hope in the arms of her dear Redeemer."
Here follows the account published in "The Friend" under the date of 1st month 22nd, 1858, concerning my dear wife;
"Died on the 11th of 1st month, 1858, at her residence near Salem Columbiana County, Ohio, Abigal Stratton, wife of Daniel Stratton, in the 69th year of her age. She had been in poor health for many years and for about six weeks before her death was confined to her home. Though she said nothing in her long illness directly indicating the state of her mind, until a few days before her death, yet her diligent perusal of the Holy Scriptures and the approved writing of Friends, evinced her religious concern for herself. The day before her death, being inquired of if she knew that she had but a short time to live, she said she did. A hope was then expressed that the important work was not all left to be done now; she replied, ‘I hope not, I have had a hard struggle tonight'. In the afternoon she said ‘I do believe He will have mercy'. Being interrupted by a paroxysm of coughing, she lost control of her faculties and was not afterwards sensible except at short intervals. Though preceded by great suffering her departure was easy and quiet; her friends have the comforting assurance that that mercy which she relied on was fully extended to her. (Vol. 31, No.20 of "The Friend 1st month 3rd, 1858). At the time of the decease of my dear Abigal our aged father lay very ill, having been confined at home for more than two years. He continued very ill suffering very much, having taken a very hard cold which he bore with patience and humility, until the 29th of 1st month, 1858, when he quietly departed this life, in the 93rd year of his age. He was buried in the Salem graveyard beside my dear Abigal. Here follows the account of our dear father, as published in "The Friend", Vol.31 No.28, 3rd month, 1858; "Died at his residence near Salem, Columbiana County, Ohio, on the 29th of 1st month, Michaol Stratton, aged 93 years. This dear Friend was attached to the doctrines and testimonies of our Society, and was diligent in the attendance of meetings; but for more than two years was prevented by infirmity of body. At one time, alluding to this privation, he said, 'None know the favored seasons I have while the family are at meeting, and although almost deprived of sight and hearing, I have enough left to be thankful for. During his last illness he manifested exemplary patience and humility. In him was fulfilled the language of Job-"Thou shalt come to thy grave in full age, like a shock of corn cometh in it's season"
After the decease of my dear Abigal and her father, Michael Stratton, Esther and I continued on the place, (John E. Stratton leaving us very shortly) until about the 1st of 4th month, 1858, when Barclays moved in with us and farmed the place for that year.
At yearly Meeting time Esther and I paid a visit to Stillwater and Yearly Meeting, then home. Spent the winter very agreeably. In the fall of 1858 Barclay bought the Estelle farm at New Garden, and prepared for breaking our farming operations about the 1st of 4t month; Barclays moved to their new home, and we to prepare for a visit to our friends in Jersey, and to attend Philadelphia Yearly Meeting. Gone from home about nine weeks. Visited by dear relatives and friends; returned home about the 1st of 6th month-at the time of the big frost. When wo returned it looked very badly about our little home.
Mark Zelly visited us in the 8th month. Again attended Yearly Meeting in the Fall of 1859 and again in 1860. I should have said that David Whitehall and wife visited us in the Spring of 1859 about the middle of 5th month. In the Spring of 1861 I was taken with a hard spell of inflamatory rheumatism; nearly helpless for nearly a month, a very trying time.
In the Fall of 1861 we sold our small home to Thomas Mathers for forty five dollars per acre, and prepared to move to New Garden in the Spring of 1862, where we purchased a house and lot from J. and Anna M. Edgerton for $260.00, where we moved about the 4th month David Whitehalls again visited us in 8th month, 1862 at New Garden (later Winona).
When we moved to New Garden had seven teams, Benj. 's, Barclay's, Aaron's, Mickie's, Josiah Fawcett's, J.J. Mather's and Samuel French with five or six loads besides. In 1864 in the sixth month, were visited by Jacob Sides, wife and twin daughters. Hannah was very sick whilst here.
Barclay was drafted in to the United States Army about the 20th of 9th month, 1864. After some days detention, in which he attended Yearly Meeting, he was forwarded to Columbus Ohio-there about ten days in which time B.D. visited him. He was forwarded to New York and then by steamer to Hilton Mead, South Carolina. After a few days back to near Richmond, Va., Benj. D. Stratton and Mifflin Cadwallad met him and Mifflinis son, Isaac. After Jos. Edgerton and Asa Garrettson, on behalf of the Meeting for Sufferings, had made application to Sec. Stanton for their release, which was granted and then liberated. Barclay returned home, and after an absence of about six weeks, in which time he endured much hardship and mental suffering. How thankful we felt for his release to Him who does indeed hold the hearts of all mon in His hands, and "turneth the hearts of the children of mon as a man turneth the watercourse in his field".
David Whitehall and wife, from Woodbury, New Jersey, paid a short visit after Yearly Meeting. Sister Elizabeth Buckman here the 24th of 11th month, also Pemberton Borton. Elizabeth visited until 12th month 12th, a very agreeable visit from sister E., although she thought it might be the last time. Died at Evan Longstaff's Goshen, Ohio. Elizabeth B. Field in the 88th year of her age. She came with us from New Jersey in 1810, then Elizabeth Pine.
About the 1st of 9th month, 1865, left on a visit to my relatives and friends in Pennsylvania and New Jersey. Attended Haddonfield- Chester Monthly Meeting and Haddonfield Quarterly Meeting. Visited Jacob Sides at Glen Riddle, Chester County, Pennsylvania, and also Westchester. Gone from home nearly three weeks, In the 9th month Esther went to Yearly Meeting in company with B.D. and Ellon, and Barclay and Hannah. A very important time with dear Esther. In 1866, 2nd month 11th, hurt my nose, erysipelas set in, a very trying time, being entirely blind for nearly three weeks, my fore- head being lanced in several places. A long and tedious time, but finally favored to gain nearly my usual health.
My dear Esther was married to Joseph Masters of Morgan County, Ohio the 31st of 5th month, 1866 and the 4th of 6th month following left for their home near Pennsville, Ohio; where I visited them to good satisfaction. Attended Pennsville Quarterly Meeting in the 8th month; continued with them until Yearly Meeting, which we attended, all my children being there. A great favor indeed seeing them there. There have been so many divisions in our once highly favored Society.
At Yearly Meeting this year we met our friend Hannah Warrington and companion, from Moorestown, New Jersey, also dear friends Clarkson Shephard of Greenwich, New Jersey, and Charles Evans of Philadelphia, A very favored Yearly Meeting many thought. After Yearly Meeting I returned with B.D.'s and Joseph and Esther to their home near Pennsville. Much of a trial to part with dear Esther, she seeming more near and dear to me than ever before. Spent the winter of 1866 and 167 mostly about homo, was at Salem Quarterly Meeting in 5th month.
On the 19th I left home for Pennsville to spend some time with Joseph and Esther, continued until Yearly Meeting in 167. Joseph and myself to Yearly Meeting, Esther and little Daniel up home. A favored Yearly Meeting. Samuel Cope of Pennsylvania being there, afterwards visited most of the meetings of the Yearly Meeting. I hope to general satisfaction. Joseph and Esther returned home after spending about two weeks with us. Mary H. Whitehall came out and attended Yearly Meeting, and paid us a very agreeable visit, return- ed about the 1st of 11th month, ‘67.
Having now, in the 71st year of my ago, brought to a close on account of many of the interesting circumstances of my life, as well as those of my dear wife, the places of our births, parentage, etc. It was very early after my dear Abigail and I were married she was very weakly, but with prudent care of her she was to me a very kind helpmate in raising our family, we being favored to live together nearly thirty-five years. I, many times earnestly desired she might be spared to me until our children were raised, and that I might be favored with health to care for her in her last sickness, as well as that of my dear aged father, Michael Stratton, both of whom I saw in their last moments, my dear Abigail expressing much concern what would happen to me. They both quietly departed this life, leaving us, their survivors, the hope that they were gone to their everlast- ing resting places in Heaven. For which I then felt thankful, and also that I have been favored to see all my dear surviving children married and comfortably settled in this world, and all seem like making well concerned Friends. All being members of the same Religious Society of Friends that I first became a member of now about sixty five years since, I much desire for them as well as for myself that we may all continue to be so, amidst all the turnings of our one peaceful Society, and we may, at last, come to the same peaceful cloud(?) that I fully believe my dear departed wife, and your truly beloved mother did.
DANIEL STRATTON, your father.
After the marriage of my dear Esther, and we breaking up house- keeping preparations were made for my removal into the northwest corner room of B. D. and Ellen's house, upstairs, about the 1st of 6th month, 1866, where I still am, and I hope truly thankful to the Giver of all our sure mercies, that I am favored with so comfortable a home.
4th day, 1st of 1st month, 1868. This is the commencement of a new year. My desires on my part are that I may be favored to look more steadily to Him for help to discharge my several duties aright, that the present year may be crowned and acceptance with Him who is indeed Lord of all.
1868, 9th month 21st. I am now preparing to return to my home at New Garden, Columbiana County, after having some more than five months with my dear children, Jos. and Esther Masters, near Pennsville, Morgan County, with much satisfaction and comfort, as well as with friends generally of Pennsville Meeting. For the many favors and blessings thus conferred upon me, a poor pilgrim passing long through this vain and tribulated world, I hope I feel truly thankful to the Author of all my sure blessings. And especially to my dear children for their many kindnesses to me whilst thus sojourning with them; feeling very desirous for my dear Esther, as for myself, that we so live that we, with dear little Daniel, may gain admittance into one of those blessed mansions in the Kingdom of Heaven with our ever dear departed mother. So that in conclusion, I hope I can in truth say, "Bless the Lord, O my soul, for all His benefits.”
DANIEL STRATTON
Farewell, my dear ones, farewell one and all.
1869, 7th mouth-6th day;
Being again about to return to my house at New Garden, I hope it is with feelings of gratitude for the many favours bestowed. left home the 30th of 3rd month, visited Joseph and Esther Masters about two weeks, then on to Philadelphia Yearly Meeting by way of the Baltimore and Ohio Railroad. Attended a very large and solemn meeting, saw my dear and deeply tried friends of the Yearly Meeting with the peculiar situation. Absent from home about three weeks. Returned to Joseph and Esther's and spent the Summer pleasantly assisting my dear Esther in taking care of her two dear little pets, Daniel and Ruthanna Masters. With much love for friends, I can truly say--Farewell.
In company with Joseph and Esther, I started for my home at New Gardon, they on a visit to their relatives and friends. the (boat). We took Julia at Malta for Wellsville, arrived at New Garden 2nd day evening. They attended Salem Quarterly Meeting, and returned home about the 15th of 8th month, 1869, being absent about three weeks. I continued about home until Yearly Meeting time, which I was favoured to attend to good satisfaction. John S. Stokes, of Philadelphia, with some other dear friends, were there. Returned home on 6th day. Continued about home, enjoying pretty good health all winter and spring, until about 5th of 4th month, 1870, when I again started for my children in Morgan County, where I arrived on 8th day evening the 8th, taking the large Arlington boat at Wellsvil for Marietta. Found all pretty well. Having brought my right of membership from New Garden to Pennsville, continued about Pennsville for almost a year, assisting my dear Esther in taking charge of her dear little pets, she having been confined the 20th of 8th month, 1870, with our third child, little Mary Abbie. Spent the Winter of 1870-71 very agreeably, mostly able to attend meetings and visit among my friends, until about 1st of 4th month, 1871, in company with Aaron Desrocs, Jr., I returned to my home at Now Garden, Spent the time very agreeably with children and friends at New Garden, attending Salem Quarterly Meeting in the 5th month and Salem Monthly Meeting twice, until on the 1st day of 8th month, 1871, in company with cousin Eliza Stratton set out for Esther's in Morgan County. All night at cousin Joel Smith's at Barnesville, arrived at Joseph's 5th day evening, the 3rd. Found all well--glad to see my Pennsville friends.
Attended Pennsville Monthly Meeting on 17th of 8th month. Our Hannah H. Stratton and Barton Dean acceptably in attendance. I was taken very unwell, which continued several days, but by good nursing and prudent care was able to attend Pennsville Quarterly Meeting on the 25th, which was a large and solemn meeting. Elwood and Hannah acceptably in the ministry. They returned to D. Ball's 6th day afternoon, then Barton Dean and company on for home, arriving 2nd day afternoon. And about which time we had an agreeable visit from Joseph Fawcett and Wife and Elizabeth Fawcett from Salem.
Now in feeble health, I am preparing to leave my dear friends at Pennsville for my home in New Garden after spending about seven Weeks pleasantly with my children and their little ones. Hoping, if health permits to attend the coming Yearly Meeting, then to return pretty directly home.
On -th month (1871), Joseph and Esther started this morning in their carriage for Flushing and Mount Pleasant, with the dear little children, to attend Yearly Meeting, cousin Eliza continuing at their home to assist in charge of their concerns.
(This account finished by his daughter, Esther Masters).
Our dear father left here on 10th month 14th with -- friends for Yearly Meeting. Although in feeble health he attended all the sittings of the meeting, making his home with Wilson and Sina Hall at their boarding house in company with all his children except ---, then returned home with Benj. D. Stratton, where he spent the winter pretty comfortably until about the middle of 1st month, 1872, was taken with erysipelas in his foot. On the 26th we received a ---, saying he was fast declining. We reached there on the evening of the 28th, found him comfortable and very glad to see us, often expressed his satisfaction at having his children all with him. For a few days we entertained a hope that he might recover, but --- --- soon failed, and it was evident that ho was nearing the shores of an endless eternity. When asked if the prospect looked bright before him, he replied, "I think it does, increasingly so". On the morning of the 6th of 2nd month, he quietly passed away, we trust, to rest and peace. Funeral was attended by --- --- of relatives and friends on 2nd month 8th, 1872.
Note: The blank spaces represent words faded and illegible, or entirely worn away in the original manuscript. Daniel Stratton was the great grandfather of Charles B. Llewellyn, Mabel, and William T. Llewellyn, whose mother was the daughter of "B.D." and Ellen.
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